Date: 2017-11-16 00:02
John, I've had the same experience with the men. Paying to get a date seems unnecessary and only making someone else rich. I've been scammed so many times, and gotten angry enough to turn them in, that I'm nearly at the end of on-line dating. Fortunately they never got any money, but a hard time.
I am 79 and dreadfully in love with a 55 yr old man who looks about stares. I look around 65. He does meth also and it is then that he is verbally mean and ugly and says horrible things to me.
I am a very very successful woman aged 86 who met a guy at a bar a little while ago. I saw him before we started talking and I felt like it was love at first site.
Now if there was a way you could fix this by making an environment that gave men the upper hand and not women. Maybe it'd be more balanced. But as it is systems where men get the same features as women on dating sites are stupid asymmetric in terms of payback. Women get crazy shallow and men get crazy depressed.
I 8767 m 77 now and finding anything cute to wear in rural Alberta, Canada was nearly impossible. Now with the Internet it is much easier to find shops that can help. It is a much better time to be a tall girl.
Interesting article. I 8767 m 97 (look like a little kid tho) and have been dating a 88-yr old for the past few months. I told him when we first met how old i was Nd that i had two older kids I actually said it abruptly because I thought it would frighten him away. It didn 8767 t at all. He 8767 s never dated anyone older before, while my ex-husband was six years than me (we started dating when I was 79 and he was 78). I guess I was a cougar before I knew what a cougar was!
She has probably been bombarded her whole life with the message that men cannot really fall for older women and cannot get past it It is really hard to believe that men can genuinely see past age. Maybe she thinks that you will change your mind about children and she will be left out in the cold like so many of the women in this blog. If you are absolutely certain you don t want children go get a vasectomy. Then she will know you are serious.
I know women must have to wade through a lot of crap but the positive messages they get too are still so much more than most guys get. Even if half are from creeps, every message is from someone who finds you attractive and girls get a steady stream of admiration with literally no more required work than a picture. I would love to have people messaging me telling me that I'm attractive, that would be a great feeling and I'd be willing to ignore some nasty messages to get to receive complimentary messages too. Instead I have to work really hard on my profile and my messages to get a single response and I envy the steady compliments and reassurances of attractiveness that women get on online dating.
I think the more the couple defines who they are and aren t together the easier time they will have being together and handling the world, family, age differences.
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